
Here is the stuff of which fairytales are made: the prince and princess on their wedding day. But fairytales usually end at this point with the simple phrase “they lived happily ever after”. This may be because fairytales regard marriage as an anticlimax after the romance of courtship. This is not the Christian view. Our faith sees the wedding day not as the place of arrival but the place here the adventure really begins… Marriage is first of all a new creation for the partner themselves…but any marriage which turned in upon itself, in which the bride and groom simply gaze obsessively at one another, goes sour over a time. A marriage which really works is one which works for others…if we solved our economic problems and failed to build loving families, it would profit us nothing because the family is the place where the future is created, good and full of love – or deformed. Those who are married live happily ever after if they persevere in the real adventure, which is the royal task of creating each other and creating a more loving world. All couples on their wedding day are ‘royal couples’ and stand for the truth that we help to shape this world and are not just victims.
In the Sacrament of Matrimony (Pag-iisang Dibdib in Filipino), the bride and the groom were being transformed into one, in and through the grace coming from God. In the documentary entitled “Walang Hanggan”, we learned from the different interviewed married couples their own experience of the ‘adventure’ of married life. It is indeed not easy. In marriage, the husband and wife carries with them great responsibility and commitment not only toward themselves, but also to the church and especially to God. Thus, entering the married life demands a lot of self-sacrifice, maturity and more importantly a great love and faith to your husband/wife, and more importantly to God. Thus, a marriage that lives 'happily ever after' can only be attained if anchored in deep love and faith and wholly confident to the very Source of the grace to live the vowed commitment, forever.
Journal:
- Based on what you have learned about the Sacrament of Matrimony, imagine yourself as the priest in your best friend’s wedding. Write a homily on the meaning of matrimony for the benefit of your friend and his wife on husband. (Minimum of 200 words).